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När jag läser Arbetet.se så blir jag illa berörd av texten (citat): “Av dem handlade 43 om mobbning – om utfrysning, isolering, offentliga utskällningar, hot, undanhållande av information, överdriven kontroll och att man fråntas arbetsuppgifter.”
Allt det som står ovan har jag utsatts för på tidigare jobb. Senaste jobbet fick jag offentliga utskällningar, hot och överdriven kontroll. På ett annat jobb drabbades jag av allt det ovanstående.
Också så talas det om olika problem med att bevisa för försäkringskassan. De talar i artikeln också om att få vill vittna. Jag mår än idag skitdåligt när jag tänker på det jag utsatts för hos tidigare arbetsgivare. Jag har åtminstone fortfarande kontakt med två personer som vet vad jag utsattes för och som stod på min sida. Jag borde egentligen gått till domstol, men jag kände inget stöd i varken det företaget eller fackklubben på företaget.
De står också i artikeln att 70% oftare är det kvinnor med manliga chefer och att cheferna också förnekar det. Jag har haft både kvinnliga och manliga chefer. När jag haft kvinnlig chef har denne varit stöttad av 2 manliga chefer över sig. Så vad ska man säga om det?
Förtryckt. Förnedrad. Och ändå förväntas jag söka jobb, fastän jag egentligen är livrädd för kollegor, chefer och svenska arbetsgivare över lag. Snällt har jag gjort det. Fastän hela min kropp skriker att den inte vill ha något med svenska arbetsplatser att göra. Om ni visste hur ont jag har i njurarna. Om hur min rygg rämnar. Jag tror allt det där är orsakat av den inre stressen som jag burit på nu i flera år. Ekonomisk stress, jobbstress och arbetslöshetsstress. De bra arbetsgivarna är så få. De växer inte på träd, jag som önskar att det var tvärtom – att de bra var fler än de dåliga. Tyvärr talar min erfarenhet emot det.
Jag skiter i om jag inte får jobb. Jag tycker den svenska arbetsmarknadspolitiken är skit.
De svenska samhället har misshandlat mig ett helt liv. I skolan mobbades jag av min lärare. Hon misshandlade mig fysiskt. Senare fick jag andra lärare, de misshandlade mig psykiskt och snackade skit om mig. De gick bakom ryggen på mig. Både på grundskolan och universitetet har jag utsatts för övergrepp.
Jag har mött både bra och dåliga lärare genom åren. Jag har mött lärare som inte borde fått vara lärare på universitetet eller i grundskolan.
Och inte har jag fallit offer för droger, kriminalitet eller annan skit fastän samhället misshandlat mig ett helt liv. Sånt är Sverige. Ett d-a skitland fullt av idioter. Hittills har jag träffat fler idioter än snälla tycker jag nog allt.
Det mest patetiska är att jag äger andelar i ett av företagen där jag mobbats. Mot min vilja, först rätt nyligen har jag haft rätt att avyttra andelarna. Jag har inte gjort det, eftersom värdet gått upp. Jag vill egentligen inte äga andelar i det företaget.
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I ended my project assignment for over a month ago and still I haven’t gotten any papers that I even worked there. I have sent one reminder before I left. And then one two weeks ago and now once more again. None of which I even have gotten a reply on. It wasn’t even enough for him to be cruel whilst I worked there, now he doesn’t even do his job. I want to have papers that say what I did and for how long, I always want that. You never know when you need to prove your competence. Better to have the paper work than not. Structure and organisation, not chaos.
Why are people behaving like this? Inconsiderate of other people. It creates a pressure on me having to remind him of him doing his job. I get stressed. I think it is like the bullying continues. I just want to go on with my life. I want the paper work done and then they can just fuck off for the rest of their lives. I will not greet him after the horrific autumn this man gave me. I will call his boss if he doesn’t give me the paper work within a week.
Why do I even bother trying to get people to do the right thing? I am just wondering what is wrong with Swedish work places? I far to often meet people like this boss. Idiots. I always hope for the best, but they just prove that they are inhumane every time. Still I never continue to lose hope. Why is that?
He was an overall idiot, cruel, using suppression techniques all the time, it was like he wanted me to be broken down, if you just could have seen how he behaved and nobody, not even one soul tried to defend me from his bullying. He doesn’t know my history. There is nothing to break down. If you have already had a cruel life, how can someone even think of breaking me down even further? I wanted to die already at the young age, so young you wouldn’t understand. This is something I do not even remember, my mother told me. I had existential issues and thought about those already when I was a child, that I do know. So I already have my relationship with the universe. At a young age I experimented with meditation. I do not meditate so deep any more, when you already have done that, you don’t need that anymore. It just came naturally for me.
I was further ahead than others. Just look at the type of poems I wrote in those days. I am wondering what the teachers thought. I have never met those teachers again and now it is so long ago so perhaps they do not even remember.
I just wish people would be nice. Seldom a majority of people are I am very unfortunate to say. They may “act nice”, but in fact they are not. Just see on their actions and you will understand. Connect the dots.
Everyday, all over the world, people are bullied by collegues. The one that get bullied can get scares that never heals. This is one scenario of bullying at work places. Self confidence takes a turn. A bullied can start believing less in not just themselves, but also their surroundings. Many people kill themselves every year when they get bullied at the work place. I think this is very sad. I have done a comic strip, but it is anything than fun, it is tragic and it is a true story. This leaves scares for the rest of the bullied persons life. Think about that.
Varje dag, över hela världen, mobbas vuxna människor av kollegor och chefer. Den som blir mobbad kan få ärr för resten av sitt liv. Ärr som den måste bära med sig även när den slutat på arbetsplatsen, eller de som mobbat slutat på arbetsplatsen. Självförtroendet riskerar att få sig en törn när man mobbas. Människor som blir mobbade kan tappa både självförtroendet, förmågan att se det bra i sig själv eller sina arbetsuppgifter, människor som blir mobbade kan tappa förtroendet för andra. Det finns bara förlorare när en vuxen mobbas på en arbetsplats. Detta händer varje dag. Kanske har du mobbat någon? Det är inte lätt för en som mobbas att stå upp för sig själv. Det är mycket svårt. Många bär det inom sig. Det är inte alla som vågar prata om mobbing på en arbetsplats. Än idag anklagas den som blir mobbad för att vara orsaken till problemet. Jag tycker det är tråkigt. Flera hundra tar i Sverige varje år livet av sig för att de mobbats på arbetsplatsen. Detta är en sann historia jag visualiserat.
Detta är en serie som visualiserar ett verkligt scenario inom vuxenmobbing på en arbetsplats i Sverige. This is a real scenario visualizing grownup bullying at a Swedish work place. True story. Copyright livingforum.wordpress.com.
I have made more than a hundred job applications prior to today. I don’t feel so much for the most of the jobs. I know nothing about the work places. I only know what the ad says they want. That is about it. The work places seldom really say what I really want to know. What type of leadership do they have? What are the colleagues like? What type of humor do people have? What kind of values do they have? Is the environment open or enclosed? What type of people are really working there? Even if I would ask I do not think that the answers always would be true. I think people do as they do on Facebook. They lie and give the perfect version of themselves. I don’t think that work applications are any truth to the persons either. I rather not say I am this or that. I say what I have done and if that is not good enough, then perhaps the place isn’t either?
The work ads are not really made the way I would like them to. I want to know about the place, what type of environment it is and what type of people work there. Then I would like to have the possibility to say no thank you without the government taking away the a-kassa. However on this point unemployed have to take a full-time offered job. Nobody is forced to take a part-time job according to the rules.
However the type of “work” mostly offered is trial employment, that really is a shitty form of employment. You have no rights. They do not even need to give you a reason if they do not want you anymore. On a project job they will have to pay you no matter what. Project jobs are a better form of employment.
The work market inn Sweden isn’t easy. You have to be “lagom”, regular Joe or Anne are wanted. “Fit in” is the key word. In my world that is “play theater”. Social skills they call them, the skills that not all of us can meet, even though being nice and honest and reliable. Sweden doesn’t want that type of worker. You should all be molded into a certain shape and “fit in”. It is not an easy work market. It is not enough that you are nice or skilled, those are not the criteria on this work market.
Since it is very difficult to find a nice work place it would be better if the unemployed had sites on the net where they advertise their skills and the work places had to apply to them in order to get colleagues. This way the unemployed wouldn’t have to apply for jobs they do not get anyway. There are CV databases, but I am not talking about that. I am talking about another way of finding workers. Let the jobs come to the workers instead. Let the workers be able to say no. This would indeed change the balance I think.
In all the news we can read about fires starting in Sweden, Thailand and other parts of the world today, new years eve, due to fireworks catching fire on buildings and such. Some see their life work gone in a few minutes. Others start off the new year homeless. It is said that people do not understand how dangerous fireworks and Thai lanterns really are. They can even cause a plane to crash. Just saying. Be careful. Let the big boys, like the firedeparment, handle the fireworks.
