A family with three parents

I read an article in Aftonbladet.se about a relationship with three adults. They all live together with their five children. Their household has 2 full-time incomes and one part-time-income, the part-timer also takes care of the household tasks. I think that they have found a interesting way of living together. They all love each other, according to the article. I think it should be up to all relationships how they would like to marry, but I think that everyone in the marriage should be able to allow the marriage to poly instead of mono, if not everyone accepts a poly marriage to someone shouldn’t be allowed. As long as everyone agrees I do not seem any problems with poly marriage.

However I do see problems when only a man in a relationship should be allowed to choose to marry more than one. I also think it is better to have more incomes than one in a family. Long ago, when most were living on farms many generations lived together and supported each other, also they took care of all members together. Today it is harder, time for family is also less. So I do think that the family with three adults are probably having a better life pussle than regular families with two. I am not saying that you all should go out and poly marry. I am just saying many adults in a family is better than one or two, but those could as well be grandparents or friends.

I have met a person that married it’s half sibling. They did it so that they would inherit each other. However they have two partners in addition to that, and even children. So in their family they are actually four parents, but however not sexual between the couples. I think as long as everyone wants it, why not? I have met different constellations of families over the years. Nothing seems to surprise me, as long as they all are adults that love each other.

I think the politics should allow many forms of marriage.

Source 20120529:

http://www.aftonbladet.se/nyheter/sverigeligger/article16820995.ab

One really good song – The power of Love by Jennifer Rush

This song is from 1984 and still one of the best songs in the world, in my opinion. This is one of the cassettes I still have left and when I listen to a cassette it is just to hear this song.

Source: youtu.be/9167IKa2tRw

Story telling about popes – the era of the last pope

One version of prophecies of popes given in this YouTube.com. The next pope being Peter the Roman? Being the last pope? Interesting theory. They give references to the Bible. Listen. Interpret your own interpretation to the passages. Don’t just take his Bible interpretations as is. Listen to the Bible. Try to understand. Then see.

Another has looked into Saint Malachy, also on YouTube.com.

As usual, you have a brain or your own, so why not use it?

Source: youtu.be/-EUg_hkbZR0

Another video with their theory about the final pope and Saint Malachy. As usual. Use your own brain.

Source: youtu.be/l9uaHTPsP9s

Information about Saint Malachy:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Saint_Malachy

The white TV-doctor was suddenly black one day

Many viewers wondered what had happened to the TV-doctor, according to Aftonbladet.se. He is usually white and has blond hair. However, one day, he had a chocolate brown tan. He didn’t look tanned, he actually looked like he was a black man with blond hair.

See for yourself. I however found it hilarious. He actually had taken tanning one step to many. He must have really good pigment since he has turned so dark by just being in a sunny country. He said in a morning show on tv the other day that he didn’t tan in a solarium ever.

Source 20130202:

http://www.aftonbladet.se/nojesbladet/article16172704.ab

What is it like to be poor by Swedish standards in Sweden?

This women on YouTube talks about the system failure in Sweden for single parents. I have written some about what she is saying, so that you all may understand what she says.

How people cannot really manage on part-time salaries. I just want to add that many women in Sweden have part-time jobs. Why? This is the most common form of employment available for many women.

This women in this YouTube-video tells her story about the economic crises in 1990-1993 and in 2004, that affected her. I have also been affected by the economic crises those periods, so I can understand her story about not finding jobs and losing jobs.

She tells her story about being poor in Sweden. She talks about Arbetsförmedlingen’s attitude against unemployed. I have also met a poor attitude from Arbetsförmedlingen, it is very much dependent on where the agency is and who greets you. I will agree that I sometimes have met good people.

She talks of the fact of how she had to go from job to job. This way her story isn’t much different. Now she says that she has tried to find jobs for a while without success. She has done all the concepts and she has good merits and still she cannot get a job. I think it has been harder to find a real job since 2010, so even here I think that her story isn’t much different from many others I have met. I have also gone from job to job. She has applied for thousend’s of jobs.

She says that she has tried to talk to Arbetsmarknadsdepartementet and affect them. She has met others in the same position as her. Together they have given the Swedish politicians at Arbetsmarknadsdepartementet good suggestions and she says that the suggestions have been turned down with strange reasons like “they would be to popular solutions to the work politics in Sweden”. I am saying. How strange.

She says she is poor today and she isn’t ashamed. She isn’t ashamed of being in a system that does not help single parents. She has lived on a work market that hinders people from starting their own companies and get the right tools to get a job. I agree with her. If unemployed try to start companies, they lose their unemployment insurance. I also want to say that you also risk your own economy even trying, all social welfare safety lines are not made for those that start companies. I think that anyone should be able to start a company whilst unemployed. The unemployment insurance can be reduced when company makes revenue. This is not possible today.

She is proud that her brain still functions and that she is generous and warm-hearted. She is thankful her daughter is smart and wonderful. She still believes in the future. But she thinks that Swedish society doesn’t work anymore. Nothing is being done. The government act like clown’s she said. She says that Fredrik should try to live her life for a month. I think Fredrik, the Swedish state minister, should do that.

She is thankful she has phone and Internet. She wants the politicians to live her life for one month. I understand her life, I know what it is like to work in Sweden.

I understand her frustration over Fredrik Reinfeldt’s politics, I am too. She thinks that Sweden is run the wrong way. She isn’t alone. I am also thinking the same.

Source:

youtu.be/5TTYS0JDFbE

Little girl stranded on another continent

A little girl is stranded in South America, in Buenos Aires, according to DN.se. She got sick when her family was visiting relatives over there and now her insurance is not valid for transport home, according to DN.se. It will cost them 700 000 SEK to get home the little girl. She has gotten a neurological condition called Child epilepsy, DN writes. We can also read that the family has to go in debt in order to get the little girl home. They have been stranded for over a year. So far donations only have given 270 000 SEK out of needed 700 000 SEK. In order to be able to fly home the little girl needs a health care equipped air plane, because she needs a respirator, according to DN.

This could really happen to any family. Something can happen abroad, even if it is a disease inside once body that is not visible when you travel from home. Any disease can erupt when you get abroad. This family was surely unlucky when they wanted to visit their family during child leave.

Do you want to donate? Well, go into the article and use Google translate. It is possible to donate, they have Facebook. If they would get more than needed in donation the article says the family will give the rest of the money to “Save the Children”(Rädda Barnen).

Drawing portaiting a sick child with a nourishing mother. Ett sjukt barn med ett omhändertagande barn tecknad av livingforum.wordpress.com. Copyright livingforum.wordpress.com.

Sources 20130118:

http://sv.wikipedia.org/wiki/Epilepsi 

http://www.dn.se/nyheter/sverige/de-maste-lana-700000-for-att-fa-hem-sitt-barn

After this noone says the Swedish police don’t have balls

This is a real film and not a movie or anything like that. A real jewelry robbery was caught on film by some guys dining at a restaurant I think. The Swedish police finally come to the place and they shoot one of the robbers down. So if you are going to rob banks, keep in mind you can get killed, just like this dude almost was. Is it really worth the money? Is it? The Swedish police can shoot you and kill you if you rob a jewelry store or anything really. Keep that in mind and do good instead. Stop that criminal life idea and live on the right side of the law. Do you think other criminals are your friends? In this film the shoot guys friend run over him trying to save their own asses. And those people are his friends?

See the films about the real actual robbery and police shootings here (20130105):

http://www.aftonbladet.se/webbtv/nyheter/brottstraff/article16021815.ab

http://www.aftonbladet.se/webbtv/nyheter/brottstraff/article16020423.ab

http://www.expressen.se/nyheter/de-hyllar-gangsterlivet-pa-facebook/

You are one person who can make a difference

I like the words: “One small step for mankind”. Well this video is a inspirational video from YouTube for you. A video of motivation, hope and visualization how you can make a difference. You are special. You can accomplish and make a difference. Who is to say what matters or not? Enjoy!

Source: youtu.be/8I7Wk14VWK4

To much food!

I have way to much food left over from Christmas. And I am not much for Christmas food. I just like a few dishes and those I have eaten. But there was a lot of food left. I saw even more food today… from new years eve in the refrigerator. Today would be the last day to eat it. So I realized I wouldn´t be able to. I contacted the neighbour. Asked her if she wanted to help me eat it up today. She said yes. I was happy. Two eats more than one. So I didn’t have to throw away food. Neighbour is retired and not rich, so it was probably helpful. Also I like helping out. Like when putting up a new fence she didn’t have to pay any. Afterall our neighbour sometimes watches our kid. And never wants money, so I do it in other ways instead.

I do not want to invite a homeless here. And there are no homeless around here. I don’t want to go into town to give to a homeless. I am usually never in the City. But it is very smart to give a food box to the homeless. There is some kind of movement that does that. I read it somewhere the other day. However, they make too much food for dinner on purpose. I haven’t. I do not make food. I do know how to cook. I had A in cooking. But I really do not like cooking, so I rather not. Not even when I am all alone.

I do not like to waste food. But all food has a “best before” time, after that you could poison yourself. In the old days people didn’t look at a certain date. People knew what food should look and smell like. But today food is many times unnatural. Apples can be good-looking for a year or more in the refrigerator. I have tested. Scary. But I have no knowledge what food should look and smell like when it is “on the border”. I think people should be educated to know in schools. I want people to be able to see if food is good without looking at the date.

2012 in review

People from 118 countries visited my blog during 2012. Most came from Sweden, USA and UK, but all continents are represented.

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600 people reached the top of Mt. Everest in 2012. This blog got about 7,600 views in 2012. If every person who reached the top of Mt. Everest viewed this blog, it would have taken 13 years to get that many views.

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